Rule Breakdown
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General Rules for Chat
- This is an 18+ stream due to swearing and occasional adult humor/topics
I cuss a lot and I like to talk about pretty much any topic in the book... with the EXCEPTION of extremely dark and sexual themes. Please only watch this stream if you are 18+ in age.
- Be respectful and cordial to me and other chatters ๐
My streams are here to help myself and you to escape from the daily stressors of life, even if for just a moment. Please help to keep this community a positive, safe, and comfortable experience for all involved. ๐
- No game spoilers/backseating - only tips and hints allowed!
Even if you are a master of the game, please just lay back, relax, and try to enjoy the way I play! You may facepalm, you may laugh, but leave me to my own devices and allow me to experience the game with a fresh outlook, just as you have once before!...with that said, sometimes I struggle with certain things, such as puzzles. A little hint or tip here and there is perfectly fine and appreciated! โจ
- Refrain from deep dives into trauma, mention of harm to oneself and/or others, etc.
We all have our fair share of obstacles in life. And as much as I wish I could help everyone... I just can't. I am not a trained professional, and sometimes the world weighs on my shoulders, too. Let's try to keep things light, even if the topic is a bit sad, for the sake of all of our mental health!
- I will kindly warn you if you are crossing a boundary. After that, it's a timeout. After a timeout, is a ban.
Not much else to say about this one! I believe in second chances... Well, most of the time.
- ANY discrimination, bullying, and/or hate speech will result in an immediate ban.
Not even as a joke. Any malicious intent will get the boot.
- Be proactive and feel free to ask me questions regarding the rules.
I am open to all questions regarding the rules!There are a lot, and I apologize. I am a very easygoing person, but the longer I stream, the more clear my boundaries need to be. I am not a streamer who is good for all ages, but I am also not an explicit Vtuber. I'm an adult who likes to be goofy sometimes!
Promoting
- Do not promote your streams unless I bring them up first- Do not promote other streamers unless I bring them up first- Don't promote me in other streamers' streams unless the streamer brings me up first- Don't ask me on stream to promote you or another streamer
These rules โคด are common amongst many Twitch streamers. The reason why is, while not everyone does it maliciously, there are many who will enter streams just to convince others to go to a different stream instead. It doesn't feel good to the streamer when they're doing their best to entertain in that moment.Asking for a promo can be stressful for a streamer because they might feel obligated to agree, and unable to comfortably decline. It can also make the streamer feel used, rather than appreciated.Please check out the below table for examples of what situations are fine, and which ones may make a streamer uncomfortable:
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Talking about your streams after the streamer asks you about them and/or how you're doing | Talking about your streams unprompted and off-topic |
Talking about your stream experiences while it's the conversational topic | Telling chat you're currently streaming / going to stream |
Quietly leaving the streamer to go stream / watch another stream | Announcing to the streamer you're leaving to go stream / watch another stream |
Letting the streamer promote you / another streamer because they want to | Asking the streamer to promote you / another streamer |
Giving compliments as the streamer talks about a friend / another streamer | Bringing up a different streamer to give compliments to |
Being polite and enjoying the streamer for who they are | Telling chat that another streamer is better |
- Let me promote the people I like and want to support
This is the golden rule when it comes to promoting! If you are a nice person with a passion for streaming, just continue to be kind, and allow me to send the love your way when I'm comfy doing so!By pressuring me into promoting you or others - ESPECIALLY when I'm live - you're only making me uncomfortable and less willing to help out.
Regarding NSFW Topics
- Sexual topics make me uncomfortable.
Any topic that is heavily suggestive or sexual - whether it be between two strangers, you, me, whoever - makes me uncomfortable. The only exception this rule may have is if I make jokes about it or subtly bring it up myself. Otherwise, don't be the first to bring it up, please!
- Body parts alone do NOT make me uncomfortable. I will talk and joke about them sometimes!
I'm going to occasionally talk about body parts. Boobs, butts, balls, benis - the whole ballpark. This stuff alone does not bring discomfort. To me, they are parts of the human body... still fun to joke about though! I have very little shame in talking about my own body in a NON-SEXUAL way.
- Chat talking about my body parts in a suggestive way, or their own in extensive detail, makes me VERY uncomfortable.
You can tell me a funny story about when you got hit in the crotch, but don't start telling me all about your genitals.Even worse, don't talk about or ask about my own. If I tell you a story about the time I bruised my pubic bone, don't take the chance to ask for photo proof. ๐คฃ
- Keep it classy and light when I talk about mature topics
Be an adult and talk about topics calmly! If I'm joking around, match energy! Don't be weird, and don't stoke any fires.If you have to leave the room - whether it be because you dislike the topic, or like it too much - it's completely fine to do so. Just do so quietly. There is no need to police what I say, or announce your feelings or actions regarding the matter.In the end, I talk about what I am comfortable with. I am sorry if you are not comfortable - the conversation likely won't last the whole stream, I assure you.
- Do not dirty talk at me or others- No sexual flirting
These two โคด are in the same vein as one another. You can joke and you can lightheartedly flirt! But don't try to talk dirty or engage in heavy flirting, whether it be with me or other chatters. It makes everyone uncomfortable.
- You can laugh, tease, and crack lighthearted jokes about my accidental innuendos! Just don't get hung up on them.
I don't think before I speak. And I often struggle to catch innuendos until it's too late. I also have a reading comprehension disability... this all comes together and spells humor for chat.Go ahead and tease, laugh, and joke about the times I accidentally say something suggestive. Laugh at my reaction as I get embarrassed. Just please don't take it further than that. Enjoy the moment, clip it if you want... then move on!
Collabs
- Don't ask me to collab with you during stream!
No matter how I feel regarding it, I'm going to feel obligated to say yes because I am streaming. I will be uncomfortable. Please ask me in private instead!
- If you're rude to my friends, you're being rude to me
No matter who I am collabing with or what we're doing, don't put down my friends. They're streamers who work hard and are just trying to have fun, just like me. If you are saying bad things about them, I will time you out, or even ban you.
- I'm a huge loner gamer who rarely even plays games with my best friends. Please don't feel offended if I decline an invitation! ๐ฆ
I've always preferred playing games alone. While I still enjoy games with friends now and then, I also just do things on my own sometimes!Also, please don't assume that because I collab with my close friends, I will collab with anyone. I'm friendly, but I am also anxious. Please try to get to know me behind the scenes first!...And with that said, please don't be offended if I do not message you back, either. I get a lot of messages, both IRL and as Rei. As much as I want to be friends with everyone, it's just not possible to give everyone the quality time they deserve.Just be cordial and understanding - maybe one day we can play games together!
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